Why should we be together? - Alice

Lee met Alice at a salsa class. She was beautiful, confident, accomplished. A high achiever at work with many admirers.

Lee pursued her with intensity. He said yes to what she wanted. Made himself available. Prioritised her needs.

She chose him.
Their relationship had a particular rhythm. She focused on her demanding career. He made sure her life ran smoothly. She made decisions. He supported them.
Lee was content with this arrangement. It worked for both of them.

When Chinese New Year came around, Lee brought Alice home for the festival.
Women of the family, including in-laws, gathered in the kitchen to prepare food together for the celebration.
But she sat at the dining table, laptop open, rushing to meet a work deadline.

"Can you bring me some water?" Alice asked Lee.
He did.
Lee's parents watched. Their disapproval was clear. They did not like what they saw.

Sharp comments followed.
About modern women. About respect. About what proper behaviour should look like.
Lee did not know what to say. The tension built throughout the day.

Alice finally closed her laptop. Looked at Lee. Then at his parents.
"I have had enough," she said. "Why should we be together?"

She ended the engagement.